Mind the Gap
Mind the Gap
Michael Comyn
Whatever the Mistake, It’s the Lie Afterwards That Hurts More
12 minutes Posted Feb 14, 2026 at 10:00 am.
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This week, during a leadership course, a participant shared a line from her father that stopped the room:

“Whatever the mistake, it’s the lie afterwards that hurts more.”

In this episode of Mind the Gap, Michael explores why that simple sentence holds up across high-trust professions and high-pressure environments.

From medical errors in hospital settings to cockpit decision-making in aviation, from financial oversight to corporate governance, the issue is rarely the original human error. The more serious damage often comes from concealment.

This episode examines:

• The difference between human error and reckless behaviour

• What Just Culture really means in healthcare and aviation

• Why psychological safety determines whether truth surfaces early

• How fear of punishment drives cover-ups

• Why timely honesty strengthens trust rather than weakens it

Drawing on insights from leadership coaching, aviation training and emotional intelligence, Michael reflects on why cultures collapse not because people are imperfect, but because people feel unsafe admitting imperfection.

If you lead a team, work in a regulated profession, or simply care about integrity in relationships, this episode asks a direct question:

Do people around you believe they can survive being wrong?

About Mind the Gap

Mind the Gap is a leadership and emotional intelligence podcast hosted by Michael Comyn, broadcaster, author and executive coach. Each episode explores the space between intention and impact, and the small decisions that shape trust, culture and character.

Michael’s books Mind the Gap, The Next Station Is… and Between the Lines are available on Amazon.

Follow the podcast for weekly reflections on leadership, communication and the psychology behind how we show up.