In Part 2, Oliver Mills (he/him) and I, deconstruct views from part 1 that Oliver no longer aligns with. We explore his mental health journey and the phrase ‘man up’. We also discuss what being a ‘feminist’ might mean to different people. Note mental health struggles are discussed ~ if this kōrero brings up anything for you reach out to your support network or contact me. I have plenty of hugs and smiles to give.