Michael Easley inContext
Michael Easley inContext
Michael Easley
The Biggest Marriage Mistakes Newlyweds Make (And How to Avoid Them) with Mike Novotny
44 minutes Posted Jul 21, 2026 at 5:00 am.
– Introduction and why newlyweds need biblical guidance
– The biggest mistakes couples make in year one
– Unspoken expectations and why they create conflict
– Home life, chores, and different family backgrounds
– Healthy conversations about intimacy and expectations
– Communication that strengthens marriage
– The Ten Commandments of Communication
– Listening instead of trying to fix every problem
– Growing spiritually together through church and prayer
– Navigating relationships with in-laws
– Social media, comparison, and contentment in marriage
– Why authentic Christian community matters
– God's design for lifelong marriage
– Encouragement for couples in every season
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What makes the first years of marriage so challenging—and how can couples build a strong foundation that lasts?
In this episode of inContext, Michael Easley sits down with pastor and author Mike Novotny to discuss his book Newlywed. Together, they unpack the biggest challenges young couples face, from unmet expectations and communication breakdowns to intimacy, finances, in-laws, and the influence of social media. Drawing from decades of pastoral ministry and personal experience, they offer practical, biblical wisdom for building a Christ-centered marriage.
Whether you're engaged, newly married, celebrating decades together, or mentoring younger couples, this conversation will encourage you to pursue humility, honest communication, and a deeper dependence on God in your marriage.
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In This Episode
Why unmet expectations cause so many marriage conflicts
Practical communication habits every couple should practice
Biblical wisdom for navigating intimacy
How family backgrounds shape marriage
Healthy boundaries with parents and in-laws
The dangers of comparing your marriage to social media
The importance of prayer, church, and Christian community
How God strengthens marriages through every season
Links Mentioned:
Newlywed by Mike Novotony
Time of Grace
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