Don't assume your friend knows about the thing you see them doing, that you can help them become aware of it and in some cases fix it. I helped two highly successful friends in the last 48 hours, and didn't help one friend who got a little too big for commiserating with me any more. LOL! You'll hear how I realize that I have been guilty of what I accuse this friend of though, and work through forgiving him and me, both.