Love Hacks
Love Hacks
Mikala Louis & Renee Harpe
The Real Way to Get Them Chasing
39 minutes Posted Feb 2, 2026 at 4:00 pm.
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Most dating advice confuses “power” with pretending not to care.

In this episode, we unpack a different approach: how to show real interest without losing your emotional power.


We talk about:

•why it’s healthy to inspire someone to keep choosing you through small, everyday gestures,

•how to treat your level of interest as something dynamic, not a fixed sentence,

•what it looks like to be emotionally self-sufficient instead of needy,

•why it’s riskier to settle for someone incompatible than to “scare off” a match by being honest,

•and the core truth: indifference isn’t strength — your standards are.


If you’re tired of either chasing or shutting down to protect yourself, this episode will help you find a third option: showing up fully, without abandoning yourself.


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