In this episode (PART 1), I interview Victoria de Vall. Victoria is a women’s coach, specializing in bringing women from wounded to embodied womanhood in all aspects - particularly when it comes to radical healing from toxic + abusive relationships with men. She teaches woman how to shed the toxicity & pain of their old lives and how to step into healthy, secure, & vibrant living in their sexuality, dating, and with self.
Victoria healed 10 years of her own codependency, abusive/toxic relationships, and wounded womanhood through her radical method of embodiment, healing, & empowerment. She is an NYU graduate with a double degree in Political Science and Child Psychology with a concentration in Violence & Trauma.
Topics Discussed Include:
· Victoria’s childhood wounding & growing up in a household with domestic violence
· How feminine rage & speaking her truth came naturally to Victoria in childhood
· Victoria’s experience in long-term abusive relationships with men from ages 12-20
· How Victoria used the “masculine shield” as a protective mechanism against vulnerability + sensitivity
· Victoria’s limiting beliefs about toxic relationships and being chronically misunderstood
· How Victoria moved from victimhood to empowerment
· How Victoria healed her sisterhood wound
· How Victoria healed her patters of savior complexes + people pleasing
· Victoria’s journey with celibacy and embodiment
· How Victoria created internal safety for herself through celibacy
· How Victoria found God & stopped carrying what wasn’t hers
· How Victoria became “desireless” for the lives of others
· The drive to engage with “dark glamour”
· The various tasks and aspects of the divine feminine & divine masculine
· The aspects of wounded feminine & wounded masculine
· The importance of solitude on the spiritual path
· How current female empowerment messages are actually just repackaged misogyny
Books mentioned:
You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay: https://www.amazon.com/You-Can-Heal-Your-Life/dp/0937611018
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Victoria’s podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/victorias-thoughts/id1578299105