A girl should be two things: who and what she wants. Agency is vital in our existence. We all have those traits that make us unique, different, outliers and individual...i have gradually learned to embrace my entire being holistically. My weaknesses compliment my strengths. I am not perfect, but my imperfections define my personality and customize me as me. Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.