Sit down with Kristin Bennion, a successful sex therapist, and talk about the stresses surrounding sex. Maybe save this one for when you aren't at work. Books recommended by Kristin: Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski,  When Sex Hurts by Andrew Goldstein MD, Caroline Pukall PhD, Irwin Goldstein MD,  The New Male Sexuality by Bernie Zilbergeld,  For Goodness Sex by Al Vernacchio,  Becoming Cliterate by Dr. Laurie Mintz