We recently heard that if you complain about the same thing to 3 people in one day that you are not looking to change, you are looking for sympathy or attention.  You want the illusion that you want to change but you don't want to do what it takes to make the change.

Ask yourself if you really want to become better or are you just too bitter to make those necessary changes.

• It all starts with losing the victim mentality and not being driven by the drama.  Or even thriving when there is drama.
• Have you been a victim or did you make yourself a victim?
• Are you asking for other to help you more than you are willing to help yourself?