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In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, Steve, Alexa and Jimmy sit down with Erica McCurdy, a nationally recognized Master Coach, mediator, and founder of McCurdy Solutions - known for helping families, executives, and high-conflict individuals navigate some of life’s most complicated challenges.Erica brings decades of experience working with blended families, co-parents, divorcing spouses, entrepreneurs, and professionals in crisis. Her work centers on building emotional intelligence, restoring communication, and helping people take responsibility for their part in a conflict - even when they believe the other side is the problem.This powerful conversation pulls back the curtain on:• What emotional intelligence really means in family conflict • Why highly educated people still make disastrous decisions in divorce • How Erica helps clients move from “reactive mode” to clarity • The difference between therapy, coaching, and mediation - and when each is appropriate • How families sabotage themselves by outsourcing emotional work to lawyers • Raising resilient teens in a world that doesn’t teach resilience • Co-parenting mistakes that escalate cases (and how to stop them) • Why some people “won’t hear you” until they develop internal accountability • The psychology behind high-conflict personalities • The myths parents believe about custody battles • How to prepare a child emotionally for divorce without weaponizing them • Why doing the inner work often changes the entire legal trajectoryErica offers practical tools, honest insights, and a refreshingly direct approach to helping families break destructive patterns - and create healthier outcomes inside and outside the courtroom.🕒 Chapters00:00 – Intro00:43 – Welcoming Erica McCurdy02:00 – What Is a Master Coach?04:00 – The Most Common Emotional Roadblocks in Family Conflict06:00 – High-Conflict Behaviors: Why They Happen08:00 – Therapy vs. Coaching vs. Mediation11:00 – When Clients Outsource Emotional Work to Lawyers13:00 – Raising Resilient Kids in a Fragile Culture15:00 – Coaching Teens Through Change17:00 – Co-Parenting Mistakes & Emotional Sabotage20:00 – Accountability: Why Some Clients Get “Stuck”23:00 – Helping Clients Create a New Narrative26:00 – What to Do When Only One Parent Will Do the Work 29:00 – How Erica Prepares Families for Mediation 32:00 – The Surprising Role of Self-Awareness in Custody Outcomes 35:00 – What Erica Wishes Every Parent Knew Before Divorce 38:00 – Closing Insights🎧 Listen or WatchWatch on YouTube or listen on your favorite podcast platform – Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected] 🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com 🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards📺 Subscribe for new episodes and candid conversations about family law, custody, mediation, and conflict resolution.🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez at Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc. 🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner 📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA
