We are neurologically hardwired to form bonds with concentric levels of friends, family, and community groups.   But these groups are no longer surviving in our 21st century structure.  Old, polarizing, fear-based, tribal norms of 'Us vs Them' are driving us apart as we pursue happiness and power.  If we're going to live as healthy people and families, we have to claim a new kind of connection to the people who matter most.