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Keep Talking
Dan Riley
Episode 142: Derek Sivers: How To Keep Growing
1 hour 46 minutes Posted Feb 14, 2025 at 10:00 am.
Derek Sivers is a TED speaker, an essayist, a businessman, a musician, one of my favorite thinkers on the planet, and the author of many books including his most recent, Useful Not True: Whatever Works For You.------------Book Dan to do an interview or a meeting------------Keep Talking SubstackSpotifyApple PodcastsSocial media and all episodes------------Support via VenmoSupport on SubstackSupport on Patreon------------
Intro
Your actions reveal your values
Obvious to you, amazing to someone else
How Derek thinks about money
Deep happy vs. shallow happy
Following an innate drive and desire
18 months of feeling adrift
To find direction: read a lot and wait for energy
The power of heroes and anti-heroes
Egotists and hedonists
Changing your mind and keeping your identity small
Think of yourself as a student, not a preacher
Personal growth over wealth growth
Prioritizing openness
What lifestyles or beliefs is Derek against?
The downside of optimism in Derek's personal life
Dating, marriage, and the role of women in Derek's life
How to save a life with $2,000
Derek's thoughts on philanthropy
"Useful Not True"
A prequel to "How To Live"
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Derek Sivers is a TED speaker, an essayist, a businessman, a musician, one of my favorite thinkers on the planet, and the author of many books including his most recent, Useful Not True: Whatever Works For You.------------Book Dan to do an interview or a meeting------------Keep Talking SubstackSpotifyApple PodcastsSocial media and all episodes------------Support via VenmoSupport on SubstackSupport on Patreon------------(00:00) Intro(01:00) Your actions reveal your values(03:25) Obvious to you, amazing to someone else(05:19) How Derek thinks about money(13:03) Deep happy vs. shallow happy(21:00) Following an innate drive and desire(24:07) 18 months of feeling adrift(30:04) To find direction: read a lot and wait for energy(31:18) The power of heroes and anti-heroes(36:05) Egotists and hedonists(40:00) Changing your mind and keeping your identity small(44:37) Think of yourself as a student, not a preacher(47:42) Personal growth over wealth growth(53:00) Prioritizing openness(56:59) What lifestyles or beliefs is Derek against?(01:04:50) The downside of optimism in Derek's personal life(01:14:24) Dating, marriage, and the role of women in Derek's life(01:23:55) How to save a life with $2,000(01:27:50) Derek's thoughts on philanthropy(01:33:54) "Useful Not True"(01:38:39) A prequel to "How To Live"(01:41:13) "Useful Not True": the truth of many answers and perspectives