Secret admirer, Love at first, crush comes in one line. Secretly admiring and loving someone is a beautiful feeling, crush doesn't last long it has a short duration. When secret admirer turns possessive and starts expectations it ruins the beauty of their love. Secret admiration is a beautiful thing but on the other hand is a bit scary. The secret admirer should understand the situation of his/her love as they don't know that you love them and they might not accept your proposal. Handle yourself in this situation, love your self first and let your love go if he/she doesn't love you back.