To be Gracious is to supplicate Grace into your life. Grace accepts. Grace welcomes. Grace loves without holding anything back. Grace is kind no matter what. Grace is wise. Grace uplifts. Rather than identifying yourself as a person with a name, likes and dislikes, and other preferences and beliefs, it is available as an option to identify with Grace. This means to value grace and prioritise unconditional love above all else. Identify with Grace and soon Grace will overtake your life and you will know what the Sages, Sufis, Teachers, and Avatars speak of through your own direct experiences. Let Grace in by being that which is Graceful, loving, and unconditionally kind to all of life. Don't forget to include yourself ;)