Like, don't get me wrong... I'm Black...and will always be Black. My parents are Black.  Culturally, regardless of my suburban upbringing, I am Black...but there is a disconnect.  I will never understand or naturally feel connected to the Black people of different upbringings. It just isn't possible.  Like, would you expect some Washington state hippy af van life person to connect with a southern af “I’m from dixie" ah Confederate flag waving country south twang white person? No, of course not. So why do we, for some reason, act as if all Black people are hive-minded?