OK, we've heard all the songs about being in love. It all sounds nice, but have you truly experienced it in the most authentic and fullness ways? I can say for myself that when I reflect back, what I thought was love was truly not. It's not because they didn't love me, but I didn't love me. Mary J. Blige said it best, how can I love somebody else when I can't love myself enough.......You know the rest.