We are back with marriage counselor John Weiman, where we continue our conversation on what makes a successful marriage or relationship and how athletes in particular can navigate their relationships while also prusring their dreams of training and racing. If you have not listened to part 1, go back about 3 episodes and listen to that and then come back to this one. In this episode ,we start by talking about love maps, because we didn’t get to that in the first episode. John also talks about the Four Horseman- criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and stonewalling. One of the more interesting discussions we get into is at the end of the podcast where we pose the question to John: Are all marriages hard work? Have a listen and reach out to us at [email protected] with your thoughts!