I interview my former coworker and Queen of Staten Island, Marissa Ginsberg, about New York-specific dating woes. We compare the LA and NY male archetypes, and Marissa shares a range of dating app stories including red beard dye, psychedelics, and drenched attire that raise a broader question – Are Brooklyn men okay?? Marissa also opens up about the driving force behind getting on the apps after an extended break-up, and gives her take on whether or not exes can (and should) remain friends.

To follow Marissa’s comedy career, and her eventual IG rebrand : @marisssus

To make things Instagram official : @interstatesandheartbreak

For dating commentary from my inner Carrie : interstatesandheartbreak.com

For any questions, business inquiries, or love letters : [email protected]

For a glimpse into my life when I’m not talking about dating : @lesliegnope