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Mindset & Communication Coach Sarah Mikutel
Jantelagen: What a Swedish Flatmate Taught Me about Fitting In versus Standing Out
11 minutes Posted Mar 15, 2026 at 4:00 pm.
Jantelagen
The Law of Jante: You’re not special
Rugged Individualism: Who do you want to be?
What I discovered about myself in Italy
Why this matters – especially at work
Choosing how you show up
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There's an unwritten rule in Swedish culture called the Law of Jante: Don't think you're special. Don't stand out. Blend in. It’s the opposite of American individualism – and both sides have a shadow. In this episode, I explore what a Swedish flatmate, living in Italy, and years of coaching have taught me about fitting in versus standing out, and why it matters for anyone working across cultures. Read the article. *** I’m your host, Sarah Mikutel, a communication and mindset coach. My work is...