Impact over Influence
Impact over Influence
Shelli Zan
A Good Father
38 minutes Posted Jun 29, 2026 at 3:20 pm.
)Together we'll unpack:What it truly means to belong to the Father.The difference between an orphan mindset and a child of God.Why fear of loss, lack, and being "unclaimed" keeps us striving.How prayer shifts from asking God to bless our plans to asking, "Father, what do You want for me?"The freedom found in Matthew 7's invitation to ask, seek, and knock—knowing our Father gives good gifts.Why identity always precedes assignment, and belonging always comes before doing.If you've ever questioned your worth, felt like you had to earn God's love, or measured yourself by your accomplishments, this conversation is an invitation to come home.Because the cross didn't simply reconcile you to God—it restored you to the Father.Your identity isn't something you achieve.It's Someone you belong to.You are chosen. You are known. You are loved. You have a Good Father.
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A Good FatherWhat if the greatest struggle in your faith isn't a lack of discipline... but a misunderstanding of who your Father is?In this deeply personal episode of Impact Over Influence, we explore one of the most foundational truths of the Christian life: you don't belong because of your performance—you perform differently because you belong.So many believers live like spiritual orphans, striving for approval, chasing promotion, and trying to earn what the Father has already freely given. But Jesus never operated from a place of proving Himself. He lived from the security of His relationship with the Father, saying, "The Son can do nothing by Himself; He can do only what He sees the Father doing."(John 5:19)Together we'll unpack:What it truly means to belong to the Father.The difference between an orphan mindset and a child of God.Why fear of loss, lack, and being "unclaimed" keeps us striving.How prayer shifts from asking God to bless our plans to asking, "Father, what do You want for me?"The freedom found in Matthew 7's invitation to ask, seek, and knock—knowing our Father gives good gifts.Why identity always precedes assignment, and belonging always comes before doing.If you've ever questioned your worth, felt like you had to earn God's love, or measured yourself by your accomplishments, this conversation is an invitation to come home.Because the cross didn't simply reconcile you to God—it restored you to the Father.Your identity isn't something you achieve.It's Someone you belong to.You are chosen. You are known. You are loved. You have a Good Father.