As much as moms like to be needed, ultimately, we’re trying to create kids who don’t need us as much. As some say, you work yourself out of a job. If you have a child who leans on you more than you think he or she should, we have some ideas for how to build self-reliance in kids and help them grow to be more independent.  Tell us! What everyday practices do you use to help build self-reliance in your kids?  Email imom@familyfirst.net with the subject line &quot;Self-reliant kids.&quot; Mentions: <a href='https://www.imom.com/things-say-how-to-teach-your-child-to-be-self-reliant/'>6 Things to Say to Build Self-Reliance in Kids </a><a href='https://www.imom.com/4-ways-to-encourage-independence-in-your-teen/'>4 Ways to Encourage Independence in Your Teen</a> <a href='https://www.imom.com/10-life-skills-your-teen-needs-before-leaving-home/'>10 Life Skills Your Teen Needs Before Leaving Home</a> <a href='https://www.imom.com/how-to-raise-kids-with-self-reliance/'>How to Raise Kids with Self-Reliance</a> <a href='https://www.imom.com/printable/good-character-traits-for-kids-printable-calendar/'>Printable Character Traits for Kids Calendar</a> This episode’s show notes can also be viewed <a href='https://www.imom.com/podcast/creating-a-self-reliant-child/'>here</a> on iMOM.com. Follow us: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/imomdotcom/'>Instagram</a> | <a href='https://www.facebook.com/iMOM/'>Facebook</a> | <a href='https://www.pinterest.com/imom/_created/'>Pinterest</a> | <a href='https://twitter.com/imomtweets'>Twitter </a> <a href='https://www.imom.com/subscribe'>Subscribe to the iMOM Minute</a> and get daily motherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration sent to your inbox.

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