In this episode of I Talk To Myself Sometimes, we revisit Case, Foxy Brown, and Mary J. Blige’s 1996 R&B classic, “Touch Me, Tease Me.”Through the lens of sensual power and emotional autonomy, this reflection explores how Black women in the mid-’90s redefined desire — not as submission, but as self-command. A confessional look at feminine allure, boundaries, and the quiet revolution of reclaiming agency through sound and spirit.

Hi-Five — “I Like the Way (The Kissing Game)” (1990): The First Language of Affection

Sometimes the only way to see it clearly… is to say it out loud.

I Talk To Myself Sometimes is where Antoinette Arrington unpacks the life that shaped her — and talks through the woman she’s still becoming. Each episode is sparked by the nostalgic soundtrack of the 90s, revisiting the songs that carried us through first loves, heartbreaks, and grown woman lessons we didn’t even know we were learning.

This podcast is for anyone who finds themselves lost in thought, processing life out loud, or replaying old songs with brand new understanding. Through single-sided conversations that feel intimate and unfiltered, Antoinette invites you to reflect, laugh, and maybe heal a little — one track and one musing at a time.

If you grew up on 90s RnB and hip-hop, if you’ve ever caught yourself having “that talk” in your head, or if you just need a moment of honesty and nostalgia, this space is for you.