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Divorce can shake everything: your identity, your finances, and your confidence. In this conversation, Lisa Drennon sits down with heart-centered divorce coach Joyce Ayers to talk about rebuilding after divorce, healing your relationship with money, and learning to trust yourself again.They unpack the emotional side of financial decisions, the hidden cost of self-abandonment, and why true financial freedom starts with clarity, responsibility, and self-worth.In this episode:Why money issues and relationship issues are deeply connectedHow unhealthy money dynamics create tension in marriageThe emotional impact of divorce on financial decision-makingWhy stay-at-home moms do contribute financiallyHow self-abandonment shows up in relationships and spendingTimestamps00:00 Intro: Why relationships and money cannot be separated01:33 Meet Joyce Ayers, heart-centered divorce coach02:15 Joyce’s story and how divorce led her to this work04:16 What changed after divorce and reclaiming her energy05:53 Why reading books is not enough without support06:56 Money conversations couples need to have08:50 The value of stay-at-home moms and unseen labor09:54 Scarcity, spending beyond your means, and asking permission13:27 Conscious spending, quality time, and relationship trust15:10 Joyce’s amicable divorce and customized financial agreement18:32 Why financial counsel matters during divorce19:30 Financial literacy, retirement, and long-term planning23:31 When it is the right time to get divorce support26:22 Mindset, nervous system regulation, and monitoring your thoughts29:33 Rebuilding your future and stepping into your zone of genius31:50 Self-abandonment, family patterns, and inherited beliefs34:23 Comparison, self-trust, and money choices37:55 The language you use shapes your future39:16 Quick fixes versus real healing41:15 How to connect with Joyce Ayers42:31 Final takeaway: It’s not how much money you have, it’s what you do with itThank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! 🗝🌬💖💸Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce? Inside The Smell of Money, you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple. Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving.Click here to open your Business Checking with NOVO Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it🗝️🌬️💖💸Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily
