Human Design for Parents & Kids Podcast Podcast

Human Design for Parents & Kids Podcast

Helping parents decode their children's behavior so they can make deeper connections.
Stop trying to sip from the Human Design Fire Hydrant of T.M.I. and start getting clear, specific, and tailored guidance for YOU, your family, and your circumstances. Because You are tired of feeling overwhelmed by all of the Human Design guidance out there on the internet. You are an amazing parent, yet you know there is more. You just can’t put words to what’s missing. You don’t want to spend a lifetime getting to know your child, because you want to connect with them better NOW. The Problem Is ↠ You are too busy being a GREAT PARENT to sort through all of the fluff to find the golden nuggets for yourself ↠ You feel like you are talking in an empty room as your child rolls their eyes and walks away ↠ You feel your child’s growing independence and you want to strengthen your bond in an empowering way ↠ You want to steer away from screeching, preaching, or just losing it, and parent while protecting their self-esteem ↠ You’ve discarded the parenting blueprint you inherited because you intuitively sense there is a better way How Would It Feel If… 💎 …We understood our children’s inner world, and could speak their language? 💎 …We could minimize the needlessly stressful “extra”? 💎…You had those beautiful cherry-picked bits of insight curated for you? 💎… Communication was effective, efficient, and ❤️ to ❤️? 💎…You were parenting from your center, proactively? You can uncover the secret code to connecting with your child in an authentic way (without losing the core of who you are). I Get It. I’m Sashya and I’m a mom, too…(((BIG HUGS))) I am also a Creative Family Dynamics Expert. As I held my daughter for the first time, I remember feeling my heart grow three sizes, and suddenly realizing that I would gladly give my life for this tiny little sweet-smelling bundle of brown eyes and coos. I thought I knew what love was before, but, wow, this was amazing. I soon found out it takes a lot more to live for (and live with!) our children than it does to die for them, LOL! My mother, of blessed memory, did the best she could, but I always felt there was something missing. I knew I didn’t want to just do the opposite of what my folks did, but I didn’t know what the “center of the road” really looked like, either. This really hit home for me the year my second son was born – the year my daughter turned 15. My second son metaphorically tossed my parenting books out with the bathwater, and my daughter was inching closer and closer to independence and our relationship was strained. More often than I would have liked, I found myself yelling and breaking down, instead of reaching in, reaching out, and making a strong connection. But, Baruch Hashem, Human Design Changed All That! This podcast is dedicated to helping you uncover those juicy truths and apply them to your family today. For more information or to seek guidance for your specific situation, go to www.sashyaclark.com sashyaclark.substack.com
Emotional Intelligence, Part 2
Welcome back to Human Design for Parents and Kids!Today, I have a special guest on my podcast, Jess Bubbico. She is a 4/6 Emotional Manifestor. She initiated an appearance on the show to talk about how to develop and teach Emotional Intelligence within ourselves and with the children in our lives. One of the amazing tools she shared was her children’s book, “Jessi Lou & The Magic of You!” - an adorable asset that parents and educators can use to begin the conversation about the emotional wave.As we discuss in the show, experiencing an emotional wave as a child is really powerful and can be kind of scary. And frankly, parents and other adults can experience the emotional wave as unnerving as well. During this two-part episode, we discuss the emotional wave from both the perspective of the person with a Defined Solar Plexus, as well as from the perspective of the person with an Undefined Solar Plexus.What is Emotional Intelligence and Why Does it Matter?Emotional Intelligence is the art of understanding and processing emotions.It matters because:* 1 in 5 children experiencing mental health issues, and only 20% receiving supportive care* Large-scale studies link unprocessed emotions to illness and chronic health conditions, making it even more critical for children to also help prevent physical dis-ease.* According to the WHO half of mental health conditions start by the age of 14, most undetected and untreated. Additionally, 20% of teens have seriously considered suicide, making strong habits that will help during the trying adolescent years more important than ever.* As a collective, we are currently undergoing a mutation of the Solar Plexus. The new paradigm will embrace the wisdom of the Solar Plexus. Learning to respect and harness this powerful energy will be one of the keys to our future as a society.Jess Bubbico (4/6 Emotional Manifestor, RAX Vessel of Love) is a Human Design/Gene Keys guide and former pediatric speech pathologist. Jess is the author of "Jessi Lou & The Magic of You!" (available on Amazon), a beautifully illustrated, Human Design-inspired storybook to help caregivers and children learn how to accept and lovingly work through big emotions (whether defined or undefined) while spending quality time together reading a captivating story.* Learning to love big emotions* Supporting Highly Sensitive Kids* Not taking our child’s emotions personally* Creating a mind-body connection at an early age* Role modeling for kids* Putting it into practical actionJessi Lou is a young girl with big emotions that often leave her feeling overwhelmed. She is met by a special friend who teaches her to love and accept herself through her big feelings and provides a simple 5-step framework to help children and adults to work through big emotions together.You can hear Jess talk about the book on CBS 12 West Palm Beach News and on Eyewitness News 3’s Great Day Connecticut. Jess has also been on numerous podcasts discussing Human Design and the Gene Keys, including her own show, Waking Up With Jess! You can also find her on Instagram.To learn more about how to use the Human Design tool as a parent or educator, you can reach Sashya on Instagram or at www.sashyaclark.com. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sashyaclark.substack.com
May 23, 2024
20 min
Emotional Intelligence Part 1
Welcome back to Human Design for Parents and Kids!Today, I have a special guest on my podcast, Jess Bubbico. She is a 4/6 Emotional Manifestor. She initiated an appearance on the show to talk about how to develop and teach Emotional Intelligence within ourselves and with the children in our lives. One of the amazing tools she shared was her children’s book, “Jessi Lou & The Magic of You!” - an adorable asset that parents and educators can use to begin the conversation about the emotional wave.As we discuss in the show, experiencing an emotional wave as a child is really powerful and can be kind of scary. And frankly, parents and other adults can experience the emotional wave as unnerving as well. During this two-part episode, we discuss the emotional wave from both the perspective of the person with a Defined Solar Plexus, as well as from the perspective of the person with an Undefined Solar Plexus.What is Emotional Intelligence and Why Does it Matter?Emotional Intelligence is the art of understanding and processing emotions.It matters because:* 1 in 5 children experiencing mental health issues, and only 20% receiving supportive care* Large-scale studies link unprocessed emotions to illness and chronic health conditions, making it even more critical for children to also help prevent physical dis-ease.* According to the WHO half of mental health conditions start by the age of 14, most undetected and untreated. Additionally, 20% of teens have seriously considered suicide, making strong habits that will help during the trying adolescent years more important than ever.* As a collective, we are currently undergoing a mutation of the Solar Plexus. The new paradigm will embrace the wisdom of the Solar Plexus. Learning to respect and harness this powerful energy will be one of the keys to our future as a society.Jess Bubbico (4/6 Emotional Manifestor, RAX Vessel of Love) is a Human Design/Gene Keys guide and former pediatric speech pathologist. Jess is the author of "Jessi Lou & The Magic of You!" (available on Amazon), a beautifully illustrated, Human Design-inspired storybook to help caregivers and children learn how to accept and lovingly work through big emotions (whether defined or undefined) while spending quality time together reading a captivating story.* Learning to love big emotions* Supporting Highly Sensitive Kids* Not taking our child’s emotions personally* Creating a mind-body connection at an early age* Role modeling for kids* Putting it into practical actionJessi Lou is a young girl with big emotions that often leave her feeling overwhelmed. She is met by a special friend who teaches her to love and accept herself through her big feelings and provides a simple 5-step framework to help children and adults to work through big emotions together.You can hear Jess talk about the book on CBS 12 West Palm Beach News and on Eyewitness News 3’s Great Day Connecticut. Jess has also been on numerous podcasts discussing Human Design and the Gene Keys, including her own show, Waking Up With Jess! You can also find her on Instagram.To learn more about how to use the Human Design tool as a parent or educator, you can reach Sashya on Instagram or at www.sashyaclark.com. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sashyaclark.substack.com
May 23, 2024
20 min
Parenting a Neurodivergent Child, Part 2
Parenting is a tedious, sometimes thankless job.  But today, the spotlight is on Moms everywhere.  We appreciate you.  We see you.Especially those moms who are supporting and raising a Neurodivergent child.  No, there is nothing "wrong" with your child.  But, they are a proverbial square peg in a round hole by society's standards, which makes the motherhood journey for these gifted kiddos lonely at times.Today, I want to share with you part 2 of a "real talk" podcast interview with Sarene Leeds, host of "Emotional Abuse is Real" and freelance copywriter at www.sareneleedswrites.com where she shares her story about parenting a neurodivergent child, striving toward a work - life balance, and some of the changes and challenges they have overcome so far. Enjoy! This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sashyaclark.substack.com
May 12, 2024
20 min
Parenting a Neurodivergent Child Part 1
Happy Mother's Day!  I hope it has been a lovely day for you.Parenting is a tedious, sometimes thankless job.  But today, the spotlight is on Moms everywhere.  We appreciate you.  We see you.Especially those moms who are supporting and raising a Neurodivergent child.  No, there is nothing "wrong" with your child.  But, they are a proverbial square peg in a round hole by society's standards, which makes the motherhood journey for these gifted kiddos lonely at times.Hit REPLY and Tell me: Are you raising a neurodivergent child?  I would love to hear more about your experience.Today, I want to share with you a "real talk" podcast interview with Sarene Leeds, host of "Emotional Abuse is Real" and freelance copywriter at www.sareneleedswrites.com where she shares her story about parenting a neurodivergent child, striving toward a work - life balance, and some of the changes and challenges they have overcome so far. Enjoy! This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sashyaclark.substack.com
May 12, 2024
20 min
The Ajna Center
The Ajna Center - The (usually) green upside-down geometric triangle in the Human Design chart just under the Head Center in the top third of the chart.  51% of the world has a Defined Ajna Center, 49% has an Undefined Ajna Center.  It is the hub of conceptualization and planning.  In this episode, we will talk about:* * How to support our kiddos with an Undefined or Defined Ajna Center* * Common pitfalls of having an Undefined Ajna or a Defined Ajna Center* * The Mental Anxieties that come with each of the gates of the Ajna Center* * The Gates of the Anja Center and their unique contribution to our thought life.  (Human Design Gate 47, Human Design Gate 24, Human Design Gate 4, Human Design Gate 11, Human Design Gate 43, Human Design Gate 17 * * How to support a kiddo that is never Certain about anything…Does your kiddo have a Defined or Undefined Ajna Center?  You can find out by getting your free chart with a complimentary Mini Reading PDF download, here.  Coming this fall:  How to support your child’s educational experience with insights from the Human Design chart.  With information, is your child more of a Sieve, a Sponge, or a Funnel?As always, follow your authority and strategy; you cannot “fail.”  You will probably make mistakes - we all do - but they WILL teach you something!Episode LinksDid you know that there has never been, nor ever will be again, a soul just like your child’s?  Discover your child’s uniqueness by getting a Free Human Design Chart + Report at www.sashyaclark.com While you are there, download the complimentary “Discover Your Child’s 9 Superpowers” Report!You can follow Sashya on Instagram here.(Gate Descriptions are from the book “Living Your Design,” by Lynda Bunnell.) This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sashyaclark.substack.com
Apr 10, 2024
20 min
The Voices of the Human Design Throat Center
The Throat Center - the brown geometric square in the upper third of the Human Design chart - has 11 distinct voices of expression and creativity.  It is taught in Traditional Human Design that the Throat Center is the Manifestation and Action Hub in the body.  But, that was taught by Ra, who was a Manifestor.  As a Manifestor, his Throat energy would, by default, be much different than all the other types (except Manifesting Generators).  You will get to hear a fun story about why I am so passionate about teaching Human Design to parents!You are invited to listen to this podcast and hear an evolution of that teaching, and the modern understanding of the role of the Throat Center in the body.  You will also learn:* * the differences between a Defined and Undefined Throat Center* * how to parent a child with a Defined Throat Center* * how to parent a child with an Undefined Throat* * what markers to look for in the chart that lend themselves to impulsivity* * the 11 Voices of the Throat Center:  Gate 62 “I think,” Gate 23 “I know,” Gate 56 “I believe,” Gate 16 “I identify,” Gate 20 “I am (now),” Gate 31 “I lead,” Gate 8 “I contribute,” Gate 33 “I remember,” Gate 35 “I experience,” Gate 12 “I know I can try,” and Gate 45 “I have.”* * the three leadership Gates in the Human Design Throat CenterCheck it out!  If you are enjoying the show, can you give a girl a little love and RATE IT on Spotify for me?  Thank you!As always, follow your authority and strategy, and you cannot “fail,” you may make mistakes, but they will teach you something!(((HUGS))) - All my best, SashyaEpisode LinksYou are welcome to run your child’s free Human Design chart at www.sashyaclark.com Be sure to download the complimentary mini-reading PDF!You can follow Sashya on Instagram here.Gate descriptions are quoted from “Living Your Design” by Lynda Bunnell. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sashyaclark.substack.com
Mar 8, 2024
20 min
Human Design G-Center
On my show “Human Design for Parents (and Kids!)” this month, we are doing a deep dive on the Gates of the G Center.  The Human Design G Center is the (usually) Yellow diamond in the middle of the chart with eight gates: Four Love Gates, and Four Direction Gates. If it is colored in, it is defined. If it is white, it is open or undefined. The G-Center gives us a sense of direction in our lives.  As the Magnetic Monopole it attracts to us what we think we deserve.   When we find ourselves attracting things we don't want more than things we do want, that is a sign we need to re-calibrate our G-Center.In this episode, I teach you how to do just that!In this episode we discuss:* the four gates of Direction, * the four gates of LOVE* How to tell when your G-center needs re-calibrated* How to re-calibrate your G-centerShow notes: You will want to get a free account at Genetic Matrix.2024 is going to be a CELESTIAL Rollar Coaster Ride. If you want get a peek into what the ride will be like, subscribe to my email newsletter and get a free calendar full of self-care tips to help you stay centered and balanced. Plus, HOT OFF THE PRESSES: A New Workbook for Human Design Parents called, “Human Design Parenting: Celestial Self-Care Guide”Inside, you will learn:* How your Aura Type shapes your parenting* Your Sun Sign/ Your Biggest Asset in your parenting, and how to lean into that to be able to be on your A game more days than not.* Your One Thing You Won’t Live Without as a Parent* How to transform the mundane aspects of parenting into magical moments* Your Love Languages (yes, you have two!)* What spiritual gifts you were born with* and Self-Care tips based on your chart!Here’s what one mom had to say:If I had this workbook while raising my kids I would’ve benefited from it and from your support as a mom yourself, especially with learning Human Design. This workbook sheds light on areas of our lives that we may not have come across in our daily lives cuz it shares about specific areas of our Astrology + reading those Gates activated in our Human Design offers ways to contemplate and see why we may act as we do, or where we may be missing the mark & how to come back to that. I would’ve understood mine & my children’s love languages.  Plus, some extra ways to add for self-care that I was aware of back then. Then, knowing you offer your guidance in a few different ways & as a mom yourself would have been a huge benefit to tap into! For me personally, it would’ve benefited me working with you cuz I would’ve found out how to work with my children’s emotional energy vs my undefined Solar Plexus (all 3 have it defined!)  Thank you, Sashya!   -Denise R.Order yours on my website www.sashyaclark.com Enter your birth details, click “View My Chart” and then the “BUY” button will appear.Until next month, Shalom! This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sashyaclark.substack.com
Feb 9, 2024
20 min
The Ego (Will) Center
The Gates of the Ego (Will) CenterWelcome to Human Design for Parents and Kids!  In this episode, we're discussing The Gates of the Ego (Will) Center and How to Parent the Strong-Willed Child.  We will talk about: * The three projected Channels connected to the Human Design Ego (Will) Center* The one manifested channel connected to the Human Design Ego (Will) Center* Commitments and how committing to unaligned tasks can damage the person with a defined Ego* Tips for How to Parent the Strong-Willed ChildAs always, follow your authority and strategy, and you cannot “fail,” you may make mistakes, by they will teach you something!You are Be-YOU-tiful!Episode LinksGrab your child’s free Human Design chart at www.sashyaclark.com and download a complimentary mini-reading (PDF)!Book a Reading for yourself, or your child.  Child readings include a free year of the Human Design Family Mentorship and unlimited relationship composite readings, as well as Family Penta readings.You can follow Sashya on Instagram here. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sashyaclark.substack.com
Jan 10, 2024
20 min
Life Force Energy
Life Force Energy - The Sacral CenterWelcome to Human Design for Parents and Kids! The Sacral Center - The red geometric square in the Human Design chart that is the hub of all creative life force energy.  70% of the world has a Defined Emotional Sacral Center, which makes them a Human Design Generator or a Human Design Manifesting Generator.  In this episode we will talk about:* * Using the Sacral Energy wisely, sustainably, and avoiding burnout* * The Gates of the Sacral Center and their unique contribution to life.  Gate 5:  The Gate of Fixed Patterns, Gate 14:  The Gate of Power Skills, Gate 29:  The Gate of Perseverance, Gate 59:  The Gate of Sexuality, Gate 9:  The Gate of Focus, iGate 3: The Gate or Ordering, Gate 42: The Gate of Growth and Endings, Gate 34:  The Gate of Power* * Tips for parents of Generators and Manifesting GeneratorsDo you or someone you love have a Defined Sacral Center?  (You can find out by getting your free chart with a complimentary Mini Reading PDF download, here.) Your questions are welcome in the Facebook Group for Human Design Parents.Check it out!  If you are enjoying the show, can you give a girl a little love and RATE IT on Spotify for me?  Thank you!As always, follow your authority and strategy, and you cannot “fail,” you may make mistakes, by they will teach you something!You are Be-YOU-tiful!Episode LinksGrab your child’s Human Design chart at www.sashyaclark.com and download the complimentary Mini reading PDF, FREE!Did you know? Human Design Readings are unlimited and complimentary inside the Human Design Family Mentorship?  YES!  Yes, YASSSS!  All the things.You can follow Sashya on Instagram here.Gate description information is quoted from “The Encyclopedia of Quantum Human Design” by Karen Curry Parker. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sashyaclark.substack.com
Dec 12, 2023
20 min
Quad Left vs Quad Right (Human Design Variables) Part 3 (Final Episode)
Welcome back to Human Design for Parents and Kids! In this episode, I am interviewing a dear friend and well of Human Design wisdom from several years of embodying her experiment with Human Design, Laetitia Phantastic.  She is a 5/2 Splenic Projector with a background in Psychology.  In this episode, we talk about: * What parents and teachers can do to support a Quad Left childAs always, follow your authority and strategy, and you cannot fail.You are Be-YOU-tiful!Episode LinksYou can also join our Facebook group where Laetitia and I are available to answer more of your Human Design Parenting questions!You can follow Laetitia on Instagram here.You can follow Sashya on Instagram here.To get a copy of your child’s chart, PLUS get a complimentary Mini Reading (PDF download) go to https://sashyaclark.com/free-human-design-report/ If you would like to take a deep dive into your child’s chart, go to https://tidycal.com/sashyaclark/human-design-childs-chart-reading  All Foundational Readings include one year of the “Human Design Family Mentorship” designed to support parents as they experiment with the design of their child, and their design, and create cooperative collaboration inside their homes, based on mutual trust and respect.If you would rather do a 20-minute focused session on one aspect of your child’s chart, the Human Design Help Desk is your best option. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sashyaclark.substack.com
Nov 20, 2023
19 min
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