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How to Speak Clearly & With Confidence | Matt Abrahams
2 hour 26 minutes Posted Nov 17, 2025 at 9:00 am.
My guest is Matt Abrahams, lecturer at Stanford Graduate School of Business and a world expert in communication and public speaking. He explains how to speak with clarity and confidence and how to be more authentic in your communication in all settings: public, work, relationships, etc. He shares how to eliminate filler words ("umm"-ing), how to overcome stage fright and how to structure messages in a way that makes audiences remember the information. He also shares how to recover gracefully if you "blank out" on stage and simple drills and frameworks that dramatically improve spontaneity, storytelling and overall communication effectiveness. People of all ages and communication styles will benefit from the practical, evidence-supported protocols Matt shares to help you communicate with greater confidence and impact. Read the episode show notes at hubermanlab.com. Pre-order Andrew's book Protocols: https://go.hubermanlab.com/protocols Thank you to our sponsors AGZ by AG1: https://drinkagz.com/huberman Eight Sleep: https://eightsleep.com/huberman BetterHelp: https://betterhelp.com/huberman Joovv: https://joovv.com/huberman Mateina: https://drinkmateina.com/pages/store-locator Function: https://functionhealth.com/huberman Timestamps
Matt Abrahams
Public Speaking Fear, Status; Speech Delivery
Speech, Connection, Credibility; Authenticity
Monitoring, Self-Judgement; Memorization, Tool: Object Relabeling Exercise
Sponsors: Eight Sleep & BetterHelp
Cadence & Speech Patterns; Lego Manuals, Storytelling & Emotion
Visual vs Audio Content, Length, Detail
Understanding Audience's Needs, Tool: Recon – Reflection – Research
Judgement in Communication, Heuristics
Questions, Responding to the Audience, Tool: Structuring Information
Feedback & Observation; Tools: Three-Pass Speech Review; Communication Reflection Journal
Movement, Stage Fright, Content Expertise
Sponsors: AGZ by AG1 & Joovv
Multi-Generation Communication Styles & Trust; Curiosity, Conversation Turns
Linear vs Non-Linear Speech, Tool: Tour Guide Expectations
Develop Communication Skills, Audience Size, Tools: Distancing; Practicing
Tool: Improv & Agility; Great Communication Examples; Divided Attention
One-on-One Communication vs Public Speaking
Sponsor: Mateína
Neurodiversity, Introverts, Communication Styles; Writing & Editing
Calculating Risk, Tool: Violating Expectations & Engaging Audience
Authenticity, Strengths, Growth & Improv
Damage Control, Tools: Avoid Blanking Out; Contingency Planning, Silence
Nerves, Tool: Breathwork; Spontaneous Communication; Beta-Blockers
Communication Hygiene, Caffeine, Tools: NSDR/Yoga Nidra; Vestibular System & Sleep
Conversation Before Speaking; Delivering Engaging Speeches
Sponsor: Function
Anticipation, Tool: Introduce Yourself; Connect to Environment, Phones
Customer Service & Kids Jobs; Tool: Role Model Communication; COVID Pandemic
Quiet But Not Shy, Extroverts; Social Media Presence
Martial Arts, Sport, Running, Presence & Connection
Apologizing; Communication Across Accents & Cultures
Interruptions, Tools: Paraphrasing; Speech Preparation
Public Speaking Fear, Tool: Envision Positive Outcome; Arguments & Mediation
Omit Filler Words, Tool: Landing Phrases; Time & Storytelling
Asking For a Raise; Poor Communicators & Curiosity; Memorization
Pre-Talk Anxiety Management; Acknowledgements
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My guest is Matt Abrahams, lecturer at Stanford Graduate School of Business and a world expert in communication and public speaking. He explains how to speak with clarity and confidence and how to be more authentic in your communication in all settings: public, work, relationships, etc. He shares how to eliminate filler words ("umm"-ing), how to overcome stage fright and how to structure messages in a way that makes audiences remember the information. He also shares how to recover gracefully if you "blank out" on stage and simple drills and frameworks that dramatically improve spontaneity, storytelling and overall communication effectiveness. People of all ages and communication styles will benefit from the practical, evidence-supported protocols Matt shares to help you communicate with greater confidence and impact. Read the episode show notes at hubermanlab.com. Pre-order Andrew's book Protocols: https://go.hubermanlab.com/protocols Thank you to our sponsors AGZ by AG1: https://drinkagz.com/huberman Eight Sleep: https://eightsleep.com/huberman BetterHelp: https://betterhelp.com/huberman Joovv: https://joovv.com/huberman Mateina: https://drinkmateina.com/pages/store-locator Function: https://functionhealth.com/huberman Timestamps (0:00) Matt Abrahams (3:21) Public Speaking Fear, Status; Speech Delivery (5:36) Speech, Connection, Credibility; Authenticity (9:05) Monitoring, Self-Judgement; Memorization, Tool: Object Relabeling Exercise (13:13) Sponsors: Eight Sleep & BetterHelp (15:40) Cadence & Speech Patterns; Lego Manuals, Storytelling & Emotion (19:18) Visual vs Audio Content, Length, Detail (23:19) Understanding Audience's Needs, Tool: Recon – Reflection – Research (24:25) Judgement in Communication, Heuristics (27:33) Questions, Responding to the Audience, Tool: Structuring Information (31:34) Feedback & Observation; Tools: Three-Pass Speech Review; Communication Reflection Journal (39:09) Movement, Stage Fright, Content Expertise (42:54) Sponsors: AGZ by AG1 & Joovv (45:34) Multi-Generation Communication Styles & Trust; Curiosity, Conversation Turns (50:32) Linear vs Non-Linear Speech, Tool: Tour Guide Expectations (53:21) Develop Communication Skills, Audience Size, Tools: Distancing; Practicing (1:01:43) Tool: Improv & Agility; Great Communication Examples; Divided Attention (1:09:36) One-on-One Communication vs Public Speaking (1:11:00) Sponsor: Mateína (1:12:00) Neurodiversity, Introverts, Communication Styles; Writing & Editing (1:16:30) Calculating Risk, Tool: Violating Expectations & Engaging Audience (1:21:20) Authenticity, Strengths, Growth & Improv (1:23:23) Damage Control, Tools: Avoid Blanking Out; Contingency Planning, Silence (1:30:32) Nerves, Tool: Breathwork; Spontaneous Communication; Beta-Blockers (1:34:29) Communication Hygiene, Caffeine, Tools: NSDR/Yoga Nidra; Vestibular System & Sleep (1:40:08) Conversation Before Speaking; Delivering Engaging Speeches (1:42:56) Sponsor: Function (1:44:43) Anticipation, Tool: Introduce Yourself; Connect to Environment, Phones (1:51:30) Customer Service & Kids Jobs; Tool: Role Model Communication; COVID Pandemic (1:56:04) Quiet But Not Shy, Extroverts; Social Media Presence (2:00:25) Martial Arts, Sport, Running, Presence & Connection (2:04:16) Apologizing; Communication Across Accents & Cultures (2:07:36) Interruptions, Tools: Paraphrasing; Speech Preparation (2:10:57) Public Speaking Fear, Tool: Envision Positive Outcome; Arguments & Mediation (2:13:19) Omit Filler Words, Tool: Landing Phrases; Time & Storytelling (2:16:52) Asking For a Raise; Poor Communicators & Curiosity; Memorization (2:19:49) Pre-Talk Anxiety Management; Acknowledgements (2:23:47) Zero-Cost Support, YouTube, Spotify & Apple Follow, Reviews & Feedback, Sponsors, Protocols Book, Social Media,...