Show notes
Seven and a half years in, and I've been thinking a lot about what this show is really for – and what it means to actually figure it out. In this solo episode, I'm sharing something I've been sitting with awhile: a method I've been using my whole life without even realizing it. It's not something I invented and then applied – it's a pattern I traced backwards through my career, my relationships, and the chapter I'm in right now. And I think if you're the kind of person who listens to this show, you've probably been using some version of it too. I'm also sharing a little history of the show – how it started as How We'll Live back in 2019, how it became Figure It Out, and where it's going from here. This episode is a bit of a reintroduction, and I hope it feels like the start of something new. I talk about: The origin story of Figuring It Out – and How We'll Live to where we are now, and why the name still means everything Why Figuring It Out is a practice, not a destination Introducing the Figuring It Out Method: know your story → get honest —> get clear → get to work What "know your story" actually means – and why it's the foundation, not a step Why getting honest is the hardest part (and why it starts with a feeling, not a thought) How to get clear in a way that's actually useful What "get to work" really looks like: the unglamorous repeated effort that closes the gap Real examples from my own life What this means for the show going forward Connect with Hailey: Connect with me on Instagram ShopMy - What I'm Loving Lately Email: [email protected] Timestamps: 0:00 Welcome back 1:00 What's been going on - low key summer, planned spontaneity, and why white space matters 3:15 Show history and how I landed on the name Figuring It Out 8:30 How the show is evolving – getting more specific, for women in their 30s and 40s navigating real change 9:50 Introducing the Figuring It Out method 11:45 The Foundation: Know Your Story 13:45 Step 1: Get Honest 14:35 Step 2: Get Clear 15:07 Step 3: Get to work 15:42 Example 1: Career 18:03 Example 2: My Marriage 20:19 Example 3: Fertility 22:54 You're not alone 24:21 What this means for the show moving forward
