After living life as a straight man for 50+ years, John Goodall made the courageous decision to start living his truth by coming out to his wife and three children. This is his story about discovering his true identity and the confidence to be his true self. He currently lives in Michigan with his husband, Eric, and is active in OutFront Kalamazoo, a local organization that supports the city’s gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, and allied community. Professionally, John is a Senior Director of Research and Technology with the Kellogg Company.
In this episode, my dad and I discuss:

* The feeling of being different as a kid
* Being teased for being gay
* Following the “formula” in pursuit of happiness
* Decades of suppressing being gay
* His relationship with my mom
* External definitions of success
* The process of discovering your true identity
* Attempting to “pray the gay away”
* Overcoming guilt & shame
* Deciding to live for tomorrow
* The power of groups and knowing you’re not alone
* The importance of loving yourself
* The fear of coming out
* Redefining perfectionism
* Creating a new life
* Embracing your past as opposed to forgetting it
* Finding confidence beyond fear
* A foundation of truth
* Advice for anyone struggling with who they are
* The food industry & trends

Learn more about OutFront Kalamazoo at www.outfrontkzoo.org.
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