We are only 150 years removed from slavery. Those affects are still prevalent within the black community. The male has been mentally manipulated into believing that he is unable to have a successful relationship. The female has been mentally manipulated into raising her son(s) to mentally weak but physically strong. And for her daughter(s) to be independent like her.This is a mentality that has to be broken in order for us to overcome the past. Be an OUTLIER!