People talk frequently about finding the "love of their life". I couldn't help but wonder if that statement was true, I mean is the "love of your life" something that can really be obtained?  Do we even comprehend the depth of that statement, or is it just a phrase that gets thrown around hap heartedly? If it does exist, what happens to those of us that are in a marriage/relationship where that statement is the furthest thing from your mind . . . is there hope?