This question drove so much of my life for so long. What do you think about me? How am I perceived by you? And for a long time, others' perceptions of me was 100% my responsibility. Spoiler alert, I was exhausted and emotionally drained all the time. As we are working through what is OUR responsibility, you'll be thrilled to know that there are some things that aren't yours to own! Your thoughts, feelings, actions are all yours to manage. But what falls into someone else's management? Take a listen to quite possibly my favorite episode yet as we get more and more powerful and free in healthy relationship.