Heart Reacts
Heart Reacts
Craig Gent and Sarah Jaffe
Episode 41: Circumstances of Their Choosing
1 hour Posted Jun 18, 2026 at 12:50 pm.
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Welcome to HEART REACTS, an advice podcast for all of us trying to remain emotionally functional through the collapse of late capitalism. 


This week, we talk about the tendency to treat other people as "NPCs" and why looking for patterns is maybe not always the best way to understand our love lives. And then we tackle a question about how to convince your loved ones to go for communal living.


Stuff We Talk About:

ACFM Weird Britain

“Men make history, but not under circumstances of their choosing…”

James Muldoon, Love Machines

Sarah Thankam Mathews, All This Could Be Different

Kristen Ghodsee, Everyday Utopias

Helen Hester & Nick Srnicek, After Work


We are Craig Gent, a writer and researcher living in Leeds, and ⁠Sarah Jaffe⁠, a journalist and author based in London.


Buy Craig's Book: Cyberboss

Buy Sarah's Book: From the Ashes


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