Heal Your Roots Podcast

In this insightful episode of the Heal Your Roots Podcast, Kira Yakubov Ploshansky is joined by Gabrielle Larin, LMFT, to delve into the complex world of people-pleasing tendencies, their origins in childhood upbringing, and the cultural pressures that shape them. Gabrielle shares her expertise in working with clients who struggle with self-esteem issues and the compulsive need to prioritize others' needs, often at the expense of their own. Through a compassionate lens, they explore how these behaviors are rooted in early family dynamics, societal expectations placed on women, and the internalization of responsibility for others' emotions.The conversation navigates the journey of personal growth, highlighting the importance of celebrating small successes, setting healthy boundaries, and practicing self-care. Kira and Gabrielle challenge listeners to distinguish between being "nice" and being genuinely kind, encouraging authenticity and vulnerability in relationships. They provide practical advice on overcoming the discomfort associated with setting boundaries and communicating needs, ultimately advocating for a balanced approach to selflessness and self-preservation. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to break free from the cycle of people-pleasing and embrace a more authentic, self-respecting way of living.Check out the podcast page at https://bit.ly/hyrp-People-Pleasing-OriginsCheck out the rest of the Heal Your Roots Podcast episodes at our website.Learn more about Heal Your Roots Wellness

This episode delves into the transformative power of mind-body approaches in therapy, emphasizing the significant role of meditation, mindfulness, and body awareness in healing and emotional management.Starting with a focus on how couples can navigate grief together, returning guest, Lindsay Bauer, LMFT shares her expertise in integrating breath work, meditation, and mindfulness into therapy sessions. She explains the differences between meditation and mindfulness, particularly highlighting the benefits of practices like the "So Hum" meditation, body scans, and yoga nidra in releasing physical tension related to stress and emotions.As the conversation progresses, Lindsay and host Kira Yakubov Ploshansky explore the impact of mindfulness and self-awareness in achieving inner peace and managing emotions. They touch on grounding techniques for improving decision-making and discuss the importance of embodied experiences in therapy.A significant portion of the episode is dedicated to understanding grief and loss within couples therapy. Lindsay highlights the complexities of supporting a partner through grief, emphasizing the need for communication, validation, and acknowledging different healing styles.🎧🎙️Tune in to understand the therapeutic potential of mindfulness practices and how they can be used to promote better self-awareness and emotion regulation. 🧘‍♀️🧘‍♂️Check out the episode on our website at https://bit.ly/hyrp-holistic-healingCheck out the rest of the Heal Your Roots Podcast episodes at our website.Learn more about Heal Your Roots Wellness

In this episode we explore the fascinating world of family dynamics and therapy with the insightful Allen Michael Lewis, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. 🙌Navigate through the power of genograms to understand family dynamics, the importance of accountability in relationships, and the challenges of maintaining a healthy relationship with family members while preserving oneself.🍽️Discover cultural insights on food exploring its relationship with love, respect and identity. Allen reflects on internalized messages about food and the body, setting the stage for a deeper discussion on intergenerational trauma and food choices.🤝Explore the roles, hierarchies, and patterns within family systems, gain insights into transformative therapy practices, and join the conversation on the significance of cultural ties to food and body image.👉Whether you're interested in therapy, relationships, or cultural explorations, this episode has something for everyone.#HealYourRootsPodcast #MentalHealth #familydynamicsPodcast Episode: https://bit.ly/hyrp-unveiling-patterns Check out the rest of the Heal Your Roots Podcast episodes at our website.Learn more about Heal Your Roots Wellness

🌟In this episode, delve into the world of therapy, personality tests, and couples work with Caitlin Harrison, a Marriage and Family Therapist. Explore the impact of religious trauma on mental health, the intricacies of EMDR therapy, and the application of therapy models like Internal Family Systems and the Gottman method. Gain insights into navigating childhood wounds, anxiety, and trauma.❤️‍🩹Join us for candid conversations about personal growth, healing, and the therapeutic journey. Check out the rest of the Heal Your Roots Podcast episodes at our website.Learn more about Heal Your Roots Wellness

In this enlightening episode of the Heal Your Roots Podcast, we dive deep into the world of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) with the esteemed Dr. Katie Manganello, a Licensed Psychologist renowned for her expertise in OCD treatment. With a blend of personal insights and professional acumen, Dr. Manganello and our host, Kira Yakubov Ploshansky, unravel the complexities of OCD, offering a beacon of understanding and hope for those grappling with this often misunderstood condition.Key Highlights of the Episode:Journey to Specialization in OCD Treatment: Dr. Manganello shares her evolution as a psychologist, shaped by personal experiences and a heartfelt commitment to aid others. She reflects on her motivations in pursuing a doctoral degree, underlining the transformative power of advanced studies in psychology.Demystifying OCD: The discussion navigates through the intricacies of OCD, emphasizing the critical need to distinguish it from anxiety disorders for efficacious treatment. Dr. Manganello delineates the nuances of OCD symptoms, such as intrusive thoughts and compulsive behaviors, enhancing understanding for both therapists and those living with OCD.Unpacking Misconceptions and Subtypes of OCD: The episode illuminates various OCD manifestations, including fears related to contamination, harm, and social perception. A poignant segment discusses the distressing nature of intrusive thoughts related to pedophilia, distinguishing between ego-dystonic and ego-syntonic thoughts.Innovative Treatment Approaches: Focusing on Exposure and Response Prevention Therapy, Dr. Manganello and Kira explore this cutting-edge treatment, highlighting its efficacy in confronting and managing OCD symptoms. The conversation underscores the importance of therapist-client collaboration and the gradual escalation of exposure therapy.Navigating OCD in Relationships: An insightful discussion on how OCD can permeate relationships, with practical strategies for involving partners and family members in the therapeutic journey. The episode stresses the value of empathy and understanding in responding to compulsive behaviors within relationships.Challenges in OCD Diagnosis and Treatment: Dr. Manganello addresses the hurdles in accurately diagnosing and treating OCD, advocating for increased awareness and education among clinicians. The role of the International OCD Foundation as a vital resource is spotlighted, offering support and guidance for both individuals with OCD and therapists.The episode wraps up with the exciting announcement of Dr. Katie Manganello joining Heal Your Roots Wellness, where she will be available for sessions. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of OCD and its impacts, or for those on their own journey of mental health exploration and healing.Tune in to this episode: For an enlightening exploration of OCD, its treatment, and the personal journeys of those dedicated to making a difference in the field of mental health. This episode promises to be a valuable resource for both mental health professionals and those affected by OCD.Check out the rest of the Heal Your Roots Podcast episodes at our website.Learn more about Heal Your Roots Wellness

🌟 The premiere episode of Season 3 of the "Heal Your Roots Podcast" 🎧 delves deep into the complex and often intertwined worlds of trauma, substance use disorder, and the transformative journey of recovery. Esteemed guest Laura Schneider, LSW brings a wealth of experience and personal insights that promise to enlighten and inspire. 💡In this riveting episode, Laura, Clinical Supervisor at Valley Spring Recovery Center in New Jersey, shares her unique perspective, shaped by her background in nursing and social work, on the cyclical nature of trauma and substance use. She opens up about her own battles with drug addiction, offering an honest and relatable narrative that highlights the importance of understanding and empathy in the healing process. Her story is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the power of therapy to change lives. 💪🏼💖 The heart of addiction treatment is explored, examining the relationship between trauma and addiction. Laura illuminates how often trauma precedes addiction, leading to a "pressure cooker" situation where individuals may turn to substances as a coping mechanism. This discussion is particularly pertinent as it navigates the challenges of the holiday season 🎄, a time that can trigger memories and emotions for those with trauma. The complexities of treating trauma and addiction are discussed, underscoring the significance of tailoring therapeutic approaches to individual needs. Innovative methods like inner child work and art therapy 🎨 are explored, offering paths to healing and self-care beyond traditional therapeutic narratives. The episode takes a hopeful turn as it discusses the importance of joy and creativity in the recovery process. Laura and host Kira Yakubov emphasize how integrating joy and playfulness into therapy can facilitate healing on both internal and somatic levels. 😊🌈 Finally, the effectiveness of EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) therapy for trauma is delved into, discussing its process and how it helps individuals reprocess traumatic memories. The episode concludes with practical advice for managing triggers and cravings during the holiday season, including setting boundaries and having a backup plan for challenging social situations. 🛡️🧘 This episode is a must-listen for anyone touched by the issues of trauma and addiction, or for those seeking a deeper understanding of these complex conditions. Tune in for an enlightening conversation that sheds light on the path to healing and recovery. 🌟 If you want to get in touch with Laura, she is available at [email protected] or learn more about Valley Spring Recovery Center here.  Check out the rest of the Heal Your Roots Podcast episodes at our website.Learn more about Heal Your Roots Wellness

In this insightful and empowering episode of Heal Your Roots Podcast, we welcome back the esteemed mental health expert, Joslyn Justi. In our heartfelt discussion, we delve into the often misunderstood realms of anxiety and Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD). Joslyn sheds light on the normalcy of experiencing anxiety, helping listeners differentiate it from anxiety disorders, and clarifying the common misconceptions between anxiety attacks and panic attacks.We discuss the discomfort tolerance window, explaining how an overactive amygdala and cortex can fuel anxiety. Joslyn shares useful techniques for challenging these anxious thoughts and explains the role of exposure prevention therapy in treating OCD. Listen in to hear about a client’s journey through OCD diagnosis and treatment, including the importance of identifying OCD behaviors, building resiliency, and avoiding blaming language.We explore the differences between OCD, Pure-O OCD, and generalized anxiety, emphasizing that OCD is rarer than many people believe. Gain insight into calming techniques for panic attacks and methods to send messages of safety to your body, and learn about the importance of self-care and stress management in maintaining mental health.Joslyn tackles the topic of perfectionism, calling it an illusion in mental health and detailing its common occurrence in OCD patients. We discuss accepting limitations and the process of releasing coping mechanisms. We also touch on the benefits of journaling for couples and the powerful role humor can play in therapy sessions.Don't miss out on this comprehensive guide to managing and understanding anxiety disorders, filled with practical tips, compassionate advice, and an empathetic approach to healing. Learn how to navigate your mental health journey with resilience and humor, and embrace a more informed, accepting mindset.Check out the rest of the Heal Your Roots Podcast episodes at our website.Learn more about Heal Your Roots Wellness

In this insightful episode of the Heal Your Roots Podcast, we have the privilege of hosting Gabrielle Larin, LMFT, a dynamic new addition to the Heal Your Roots Wellness team. Gabrielle shares her remarkable journey to becoming a therapist, beginning from her own experiences with therapy as a teenager.We dive deep into the nuances of celebrating small successes, a philosophy that Gabrielle carries through her practice. As she takes us through her expansive career, she highlights her expertise in various therapy types, with a particular focus on the benefits and challenges of family-based and mobile therapy.A key theme of our conversation is adaptability - how it plays a crucial role in managing a family's mental health and why it's essential to stay nimble in the face of crisis. Gabrielle emphasizes the importance of taking small, consistent steps toward progress, and how celebrating small wins can lead to lasting change.We touch on the delicate balance between positive and negative aspects in therapy, and how being prepared for the worst-case scenario can help us stay resilient. Gabrielle also brings her unique perspective on the role of cultural identity in therapy, sharing her personal experiences of working with clients from Hispanic and Eastern European backgrounds, and those who struggle with cultural adjustment.With a special focus on her work with the LGBTQIA+ community, Gabrielle shares her commitment to making therapy a safe, comfortable space for all. She stresses that being open to different cultures not only helps clients feel more comfortable, but also enriches the therapy experience as a whole.Gabrielle candidly discusses the importance of therapists 'walking the talk' and practicing what they preach. We explore the intricacies of working with clients from diverse cultural backgrounds and various mental health diagnoses, and how being intentional and asking the right questions can enhance the therapeutic process.Our discussion wraps up with a contemplation of the pros and cons of living within the same culture and the significance of understanding the 'why' behind our mental health struggles. Gabrielle leaves us with the valuable takeaway that awareness is the biggest first step, and trusting the process is a cornerstone of therapeutic progress.Join us for this enlightening episode as we delve into the heart of therapy with Gabrielle Larin, and explore how small victories, cultural understanding, and a commitment to authenticity can transform mental health journeys.Check out the rest of the Heal Your Roots Podcast episodes at our website.Learn more about Heal Your Roots Wellness

Explore the intricate world of Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM) with Courtney Burkhardt, Marriage and Family Therapist, on this enlightening episode of the Heal Your Roots Podcast. Unravel the depths of this unconventional relationship framework, and dive into candid discussions about the complexities of sex therapy, communication, and trust.Discover the story behind Courtney's journey into the realm of sex therapy, inspired by her early interest and subsequent training experiences. Learn how she examines her own thoughts and feelings through sexual attitude assessments, and understand the profound influence of these insights in her therapeutic interactions.The episode delves into the core aspects of CNM, illuminating its underpinnings, and presenting a holistic view of the community. Courtney shares her extensive research on the topic from her graduate school days, providing an analytical lens to this contemporary relationship paradigm. She elucidates on the practice of emotionally-focused couples therapy in non-monogamous relationships, and explains the hierarchical and egalitarian forms of polyamory.The conversation also addresses the realities of transitioning from monogamous to non-monogamous relationships, the nuances of polyamory and swinging, and the distinctive contrasts between open and monogamous relationships. It further examines the intersection of chronic illness, trauma history, and mismatched sex drives with non-monogamous partnerships, underscoring the vital role of trust and clear communication.Courtney also speaks candidly about the challenges couples may face in non-monogamous relationships, such as setting boundaries, crafting living contracts, and overcoming the stigma and scarcity mindset. The difference between cheating and non-monogamy is also discussed, offering listeners a fresh perspective on this often misunderstood topic.Towards the end, Courtney shares valuable recommendations, including the book "Ethical Slut", and introduces the Agape app, a tool designed to aid couples in enhancing communication. As the episode wraps up, listeners learn that Courtney is currently accepting new clients for sex therapy, providing an opportunity to benefit from her unique expertise.In this episode, enhance your understanding of consensual non-monogamy, gain a fresh perspective on relationship dynamics, and discover the healing power of open conversations and clear communication in fostering healthy, fulfilling relationships. Whether you're a therapist, a student, or just curious about the realm of non-monogamous relationships, this episode is a treasure trove of insights and knowledge.Check out the rest of the Heal Your Roots Podcast episodes at our website.Learn more about Heal Your Roots Wellness

In this episode of the Heal Your Roots podcast, host Kira Yakubov, LMFT sits down with Dr. Michele Finneran to discuss the complex issue of domestic abuse. Dr. Finneran delves into the psychology behind this pervasive problem, discussing the different types of domestic abuse and the common theme of powerlessness that victims often feel. She also explores the connection between Stockholm Syndrome and domestic violence, and offers insights into the importance of nurturing mother-daughter relationships as a key factor in healing from trauma.Dr. Finneran shares her expertise on how to break the cycle of trauma bonding, and explains the three-step approach to therapy for domestic violence survivors. She offers advice on setting boundaries for self-care and emphasizes the importance of seeking help and emotional support. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to understand domestic abuse and its effects, and offers valuable insights and resources for those looking to heal and move forward.Check out the rest of the Heal Your Roots Podcast episodes at our website.Learn more about Heal Your Roots Wellness