Are you choosing to go with his plans or denying them? 

If your man comes to you with a plan and show you exactly what he intends for the the future, believe in him. Fellas if you don't come with a plan you can't expect her to be all in. 

If he believes in a good future and a good dream, other than the typical dream that most men have and he comes with a game plan, believe in him. That's the way that it should go.