Book 3 of the field guide addresses the question, How do I lead all these people, anyway. They’re all so different?This piece by St. Gregory might make you a bit uncomfortable. But in the midst of it all, he gives us hope. That hope comes from dragging the issue into the light. If you disagree, at least respect him enough to listen.St. Gregory's Summary Statement for this chapter:How the married and the single are to be admonished.