Golf Psycho Podcast
Golf Psycho Podcast
Carlos Benavidez, Golf Mental Game Coach
Fix Your Golf Mental Game: The Pre-Shot Routine You've Been Missing - W/ Raul Gomez (B9 Golf) | Golf Psycho EP: 2
1 hour 4 minutes Posted Aug 8, 2025 at 5:00 pm.
– Intro & Episode Setup 2:12 – Quick Recap of Episode 1 5:47 – What “Loading The Who” Means 9:30 – Why Identity Shifts Lower Golf Pressure 13:40 – How This Tip Reduces Blow-Ups on the Course 18:05 – Practical Pre-Shot Routine Adjustments 22:15 – Real Golfer Example: When Thoughts Spiral 27:00 – Raul’s Story: Applying “The Who”  33:20 – Carlos Explains Why Most Golfers Mismanage Pressure 39:45 – Building Mental Resilience Beyond Golf 46:10 – Training Your Nervous System Under Stress 52:30 – How to Reset After a Bad Hole 58:05 – Final Thoughts & Key Takeaways 1:00:15 – Outro + Next Episode Preview🎧 Don’t miss an episode!Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify & YouTubeWatch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GolfPsychoPodcast💬 Share your favorite takeaway in the comments🔥 Follow us on Instagram: @thegolfpsycho🌐 Learn more or work with us: www.thegolfpsycho.com Schedule Your Lesson Here
Welcome Back to Golf Psycho Podcast (Carlos & Raul intro)
Building on Episode 1: Meditation as Mental Game Foundation
Why Focus Training Matters for Golfers
Three Mental Game Tips + One Big Bonus (Overview)
The Pre-Shot Routine: Introducing “Loading the Who”
Choosing Who Hits the Shot
Setting Intentions & Golf Rounds
Emotional Reactions After Bad Shots (The Golf Spiral)
Jiu-Jitsu & Golf Connection: Avoiding the Submission
Naming the Process: “Loading the Who” Explained
Building a Pre-Shot Routine with Breath & Gratitude
Gratitude as the Foundation of Mental Golf
Nervous System Regulation in Golf
From Personal Struggles to Coaching Method
Why Range Reps Matter for Mental Game Training
Golf, Gratitude, and Life Beyond the Course
Practicing Presence & Perspective Off the Course
Regulating Emotions for Golf and Family Life
Nervous System Reset = Better Golf & Better Living
#1 Anchor for Mental Game
Applying “Loading the Who”
Why Mental Wins Matter
Short Game & Putting
Installing LTW in All Aspects of Your Game
Scorecard Spiral Story
Autopilot vs. Conscious Golf
Protecting Scores vs. Playing Free
Golf Tantrums
The Spiral of Bad Reactions on the Course
Can Anger Ever Help? Self-Coaching vs. Self-Loathing
Jon Rahm, Tiger Woods, and Using Emotion for Fuel
Why Mental Game Changes Golf and Life Beyond the Course
Discovering “Loading the Who” as a Hidden Technique
Golf as a Tool for Regulating Mind and Body
How Gratitude and Focus Spill Into Everyday Life
Open Tabs vs. Productivity: A Golf + Life Parallel
Multitasking, Distraction, and the Cost of Anxiety
Silence and Dopamine: Why Focus Feels Unnatural Today
Golf as an Escape: Why One-Track Focus Feels So Good
Present Moment Training: No Past, No Future, Only Now
The Empowered Golfer: Control Exists Only in the Now
Step-by-Step Guide to Loading the Who
Anchoring the Process with Breath and Intention
Smiling Into Character: Why Emotion Matters
Think Box vs. Play Box (Designing the Shot)
Why Autopilot Creates Spirals on the Course
Anxiety, Depression, and Golf as Mental Training
Meditation = Training the Noticer (Catching Thoughts)
Why Losing Focus is Actually a Win in Meditation
Past Thoughts = Depression, Future Thoughts = Anxiety
Training Golfers to Notice and Reset on the Course
Practicing “Loading the Who”
Noticing Resistance: When You Don’t Want to Train
Why Catching Negative Self-Talk is the Real Victory
Golf as Life Training: Tools for Everyday Stress
Nervous System Regulation = Better Health and Golf
Misconceptions About Meditation (Not Just Sitting Quietly)
Types of Meditation for Golfers (Breath, Visualization, Body Scan)
Guided Awareness Meditation: From Toes to Hands
Why Hands and Grip Pressure are Key to Golf Focus
Losing Awareness Under Pressure: Big vs. Small Shots
Adrenaline from Birdies and the Excitement Trap
Why Attachment to Score Creates Mental Spirals
Using “Loading the Who” as a Reset Tool Mid-Round
Final Thoughts & Key Takeaways
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Episode 2 picks up right where Episode 1 left off!  Even if you missed Episode 1, this Episode will still make sense. But do yourself a favor and be sure to catch Episode 1.  This episode's intention is to help every golfer increase their mental game power by adding, "Loading The Who", to the pre-shot routine. This episode goes deep on how this simple tip can greatly reduce blow ups and spirals. Is your mental game the biggest weakness in your golf game? Do you just KNOW it's costing you shots EVERY round? Head to THEGOLFPSYCHO.Com to book a lesson and finally say goodbye to not hitting your potential. Ep 2 Chapters 0:00 – Intro & Episode Setup 2:12 – Quick Recap of Episode 1 5:47 – What “Loading The Who” Means 9:30 – Why Identity Shifts Lower Golf Pressure 13:40 – How This Tip Reduces Blow-Ups on the Course 18:05 – Practical Pre-Shot Routine Adjustments 22:15 – Real Golfer Example: When Thoughts Spiral 27:00 – Raul’s Story: Applying “The Who”  33:20 – Carlos Explains Why Most Golfers Mismanage Pressure 39:45 – Building Mental Resilience Beyond Golf 46:10 – Training Your Nervous System Under Stress 52:30 – How to Reset After a Bad Hole 58:05 – Final Thoughts & Key Takeaways 1:00:15 – Outro + Next Episode Preview🎧 Don’t miss an episode!Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify & YouTubeWatch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GolfPsychoPodcast💬 Share your favorite takeaway in the comments🔥 Follow us on Instagram: @thegolfpsycho🌐 Learn more or work with us: www.thegolfpsycho.com Schedule Your Lesson Here