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A Sex Therapist Told Us Everything: Kink, Foreplay, & How to Have Better Sex
48 minutes Posted Apr 30, 2026 at 1:00 pm.
Welcome Dr. Shamyra to GlowJob
What People Get Wrong About Sex Therapists
Who Her Clients Are (Ages, Relationship Types)
The Feeld App Explained: Kink-Friendly Dating
Disclosing Your Kinks Early vs. the ”Normal” Dating Way
Gen Z Is Having Less Sex — But Here’s the Real Reason
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The Most Important Questions to Ask Early in a Relationship
The #1 Red Flag People Romanticize
Perimenopause & Andropause
How Couples Stay Connected as They Evolve
The ”Sex Numbers” Exercise for Couples
What Is Kink? (Spoiler: Doggy Style Counts)
Pillow Princesses & Why They Don’t Move During Sex
Kink vs. Fetish — What’s the Actual Difference?
Most Common Fetishes (Feet, Panties, Foot Pics Economy)
The Wildest Kink She’s Seen in Practice (Scat Play)
Making Kink Accessible: Starter Kit
Rapid Fire: Most Overrated Toy, Position, Underrated Toy & Position
Coconut Oil as Lube — The Truth
The #1 Sex Mistake People Are Making
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We brought a certified sex therapist to GlowJob — and she did not hold back. Sex and relationship expert Dr. Shamyra, founder of On The Green Couch, joined Julia & Sasa to break down everything from dating apps to kink to why your foreplay game is probably starting way too late.
We get into the real questions couples avoid: What are the core values you need to align on before committing? What's actually going on with Gen Z and sex? Is the alternative dating app Feeld changing how people date? And what's the difference between a kink and a fetish (hint: doggy style counts as kink)?
Dr. Shamyra also explains why "we have communication problems" is almost never the real issue, what andropause is and why men need to know about it, how to introduce kink using only things you already have at home, and why foreplay starts the second your last sexual encounter ends.
Honest, hilarious, and genuinely educational — this episode will change how you think about intimacy.
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GlowJob Podcast is the fastest growing beauty & business podcast that makes you hotter and smarter. 
Best friends & co-hosts Julia Bellary and Sasa Li cover the internet trends, celebrity news, brand drama, and cultural moments shaping how we live, spend, and think — from viral TikTok controversies and influencer culture to billion-dollar business moves and the conversations everyone's having right now. 
Funny and unapologetically candid, Julia & Sasa break it all down every Thursday with episodes you didn’t know you needed.