Sukanmi and Ini dynamic from Phases and using it as a starting point to talk about the times we let people who don’t really want us have too much power in our lives.

Why do we stay? Why do we bend? Why is confusion sometimes more familiar than clarity?

I also react to some of your messages: the gym guy who’s doing too much, the fiancé who makes decisions alone, the girl whose friends are somehow, and the colleague who’s oversharing to management.

It’s a soft, honest, reflective conversation. Enjoy.