Gist with Tofu
Gist with Tofu
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Love Me, Love My Therapist: Why We All Need Healing Before Dating
7 minutes Posted Jun 7, 2025 at 11:42 am.
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In this episode, Tofu breaks down the chaos that happens when people jump into relationships before healing from past trauma. From projecting insecurities to turning partners into unpaid therapists, we get into the gists, the drama, and the necessary self-awareness. If your idea of a relationship is “I can change them,” or “they complete me,” you definitely need to listen to this one. Therapy isn’t a buzzword, it’s the bare minimum.