Getting Free
Getting Free
International Beit Din
From courtship to court
28 minutes Posted Mar 1, 2026 at 5:00 am.
]Julia decides to leave her marriage.
] What is a gett?
] Red flags begin to appear.
] What is coercive control?
] The moment they decide to leave.
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The women fall in love, or they decide to give a nice guy a chance. But red flags start to pop up. There’s abuse. And the women escape. A normal divorce story would end there, but they’re still trapped. They’re agunot- “chained women.” That’s because their husbands refuse to give them a religious divorce, known as a gett. 
 The women in Getting Free are professionals, mothers, neighbors, and leaders. This is where their fight for freedom begins.
 
In This Episode
Why withholding a religious divorce (gett) is abuse and a violation of Jewish law
What it means to be an agunah — a “chained woman”
Why the agunah crisis affects women across denominations and levels of observance
How coercive control escalates and what finally pushes women to leave
 
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