In this episode, Matt speaks with queer relationship coach Lonay Halloum about why we attract unavailable men. This episode will provide you with a deeper understanding of your relationship patterns and why you might be attracting unavailable men. This episode was inspired by a deep desire to help you heal the subconscious programs that lead to self-abandonment so you can end this exhausting cycle and finally attract available men. The concepts and questions we explore in this episode are:Matt and Lonay both share their stories about attracting unavailable menWhy do we attract unavailable men?How do attachment styles play a role?What is the subconscious mind, and how does it contribute to this?How can we work with the subconscious mind to heal?How does low self-worth play a role in this?How can we break this cycle and start to attract available men?Related Topics:Matt's blog “Why do I keep on attracting avoidant men”?Meeting your emotions: guided meditationResearch study about gay men having avoidant attachment stylesToday's Guest: Lonay HalloumWebsiteInstagramToday's Host: Matt LandsiedelFacebookInstagramTikTokSupport the Show - viewer and listener support helps us to continue making episodes- CONNECT WITH US -Watch podcast episodes on YouTubeJoin the Gay Men's Brotherhood Facebook communityGet on our email list to get access to our monthly Zoom calls Follow us on Instagram | TikTok Learn more about our community at GayMenGoingDeeper.com - LEARN WITH US -Building Better Relationships online course: Learn how to nurture more meaningful and authentic connections with yourself and others.