Gay Men Going Deeper
Gay Men Going Deeper
Michael DiIorio & Matt Landsiedel | Gay Men’s Brotherhood
Developing a Healthy Relationship with Anger
1 hour 1 minutes Posted Jun 27, 2024 at 11:00 am.
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In this episode, Matt speaks with Psychotherapist, Nyle Biondi, about anger and how important it is to connect with and release anger from our mind and body. Anger can serve a great purpose if we consciously work with it. It can help us step into our power, and be a messenger of unmet needs or crossed boundaries. Many of us have social conditioning that tells us anger is inappropriate, or perhaps you were even shamed for being angry. Connecting with your anger in a healthy way might just be what's missing from your healing journey.
The concepts and questions we explore in this episode are:
Anger 101
Other words to identify anger 
The difference between anger and rage 
Ways unprocessed anger shows up 
Your relationship with anger 
How to identify it?
Implosive vs explosive anger 
Why do we repress anger?
Why anger is helpful and why we need it
The connection between anger and other emotions - primary and secondary feelings
The challenges of exploring anger 
The benefits of exploring anger
How to connect and activate anger in a healthy way 
How to release anger from the body
Inner child work - letting your inner child have the temper tantrum it didn't get to have 
How to soothe your nervous system after feeling anger
Soothing is like reparenting 
3 Steps to Processing Anger:
Connect and activate
Past traumas
Daily stressors 
Personality traits 
Release
Primal screaming into a pillow 
Punching pillows 
Slamming pillows on your bed 
Chopping wood 
Batting cages 
Demo rooms 
Soothe
Deep, slow, and long belly breathing - in through the nose and out slow through the mouth 
Hold your hand on your heart 
Listen to a guided meditation. 
Focus on positive sensations in your body
Listen to your favourite song 
Smell something nice  
Talk to a friend
Today's Guest: Nyle Biondi
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