In this episode Matt speaks with Indie Author and Counselor, Jonathan Lee about dating as a gay man. Jonathan wrote his debut book 40 Single Gay where he over-shares his experience in the hostile gay dating world and what he learned about himself through the process. Matt and Jonathan unpack everything from hookup culture and non-monogamy, to intimacy and how to get our emotional needs met as gay men. Here are some of the concepts they explored in this episode:What is your experience of dating in the gay community?Societal pressures to be in a relationshipHostile world of datingBaggage and insecurity from past relationshipsThe investment of time and energy it takes to date The epidemic of intimacy avoidance in our community Reframing failed relationships Doing our inner work If you find yourself lonely and frustrated with the gay dating scene and hook up apps, this episode may be just what you need.Don't miss this episode!️Today's Hosts:Jonathan Lee:InstagramMatt Landsiedel:InstagramWebsiteWatch this ep on YouTube- Connect with us -Join the private Facebook community including access to monthly group Zoom callsTake our "Building Better Relationships" courseTake our "Healing Your Shame" courseCoaching Collection - Get lifetime access to 2 courses, 45 coaching videos, and 2 workshop seriesFollow us on InstagramGayMenGoingDeeper.comSupport the Show - viewer and listener support helps us to continue making episodes