In this episode I dive deep with a life long friend on being looked at as "too much" or "too extra" in the dating world and life in general. Should I tone down my hyperindendant boss like attitude to help find the perfect partner or friend group and make society feel more comfortable with my presence? Is wanting a partner who can step in as a handyman as well as being a sentimental and  in tune with their emotions type of person impossible to find, or do we need to wait it out.