There probably never was a time when fitting in was NOT an issue for most people. These days it's even worse. This is so because even though people are adaptable, the world has become a place of much stronger and further apart sides. So, imagine you're an extroverted and healthy person who enjoys having friends and who makes up her own mind. You'll probably find that, as most people align with what's easiest, you may feel more out-of-sorts. But with real power, it doesn't have to MATTER AT ALL.