Are you someone who's constantly punching above your weight? Whether it’s dating someone way out of your league, landing a job you “weren’t qualified” for, or winning a trivia night with nothing but guesses and blind confidence, you're swinging hard, aiming high, and surprising everyone (including yourself!).Or are you the opposite - you know what you're good at and prefer a more measured approach? What are the pros and cons to both?  As always, if you have a burning question, find us here:Email: [email protected]: @frndsnextdoorDan: @therealdanchenMia: @msmiaaaThomas: @mundane_photos