Hosts Scott Dance and Michael Sutherland break down how coaches should manage athlete expectations at tournaments, from the immediate emotional reaction to the mental and physical follow‑ups. They discuss real coaching examples, trust and communication between coach and athlete, and when to push for the next competition. We discuss some friends such as Big John (double gold at a recent event) and reference Bernardo Faria’s thoughts on the right age to start competing. Key points cover containment strategies (the ‘long lonely walk’), when to give technical feedback, handling overconfident or dismissive responses, and converting losses into productive learning.The episode closes with a combat confession segment and practical takeaways: pre‑manage expectations, tailor feedback to each athlete, use competition as practice, and keep team culture constructive so everyone can grow.Check us out and submit Combat Confessions at: www.fdcpodcast.com Please remember to follow, rate and review!or Support the show on our PatreonWant more from Fighters Drinking Coffee:Follow us on instagram: @fightersdrinkingcoffee   Join our discord: https://discord.gg/UPmxwuwXks