Hosts Michael Sutherland and Scott Dance dig into a listener’s question: why does the BJJ community sometimes look down on people who don’t compete? They explore hierarchy, ego, social media’s role in amplifying validation-seeking, and whether competitive culture bleeds over from wrestling.The episode covers coaches’ perspectives, the value of hobbyists as essential training partners, how competition can maximize potential, and practical advice for both competitors and non-competitors on respect, culture, and committing to your path.The show wraps with a Combat Confessions segment sourcing Reddit stories, including funny training-room comments, repeated guillotines, and a memorable seminar bow.Check us out and submit Combat Confessions at: www.fdcpodcast.com Please remember to follow, rate and review!or Support the show on our PatreonWant more from Fighters Drinking Coffee:Follow us on instagram: @fightersdrinkingcoffee   Join our discord: https://discord.gg/UPmxwuwXks