What's really important is that you define what success means to you.06:47 - Be clear of the difference between what success means in society and what success means to you07:55 - As long as you're emotionally attached to your failures, you're never going to move past them.13:19 - It's a process of letting go of who you think you need to be, to fit into society's measure of success.15:42 - Get clear on what your definition of success is, and strategise from there.Resources: Join my fearlessly curious community and SIGN UP to my Fearlessly Authentic Living Newsletters for reflections, contemplations and support you won't find anywhere else. If you enjoy this episode, please SHARE, RATE and REVIEW the show on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. About Me: I help you lead with fearless authenticity by smashing the self-imposed heteronormative stereotypes that keep you playing small through emotional healing inner child and inherited intergenerational trauma. Create a purposeful life of your unique design by disrupting societal norms and expectations of who you should be. Explore mindfulness, fearless curiosity and loving kindness through the lens of Human Design to thrive as the person you are born to be. Learn more about my coaching method and join my emotional healing, mindfulness, and music community at melissaindot.com.