I once heard it was soft to take paternity leave to be there for your child's birth and 1st few weeks. It was by far the dumbest thing I ever HEARD! Being there early helps you create a quicker bond, you get to be there to see some of your child's 1st moments and you get to help the mother of your child recover so she can be her best self while raising your legacy! Use it, it's soft not to!