Social Media has changed the landscape of the dating market and 80% of men are at a huge disadvantage to the top 20 percent of men that are the extremely high earners. While the 80% of men (barbarian) use every tactic in their arsenal to attempt to  breach the women's castle wall. The 20% of men(barbarians) had a strategic plan from the start and get to just to walk right into castle with no disturbance